Challenge Day #5-
Are your Affairs in Order?
**I know
this is a touchy subject. But I
thought after 4 days of food storage food and cold showers, (unless you were me
or Deb!) you would be grateful to have everything working in your house!
** Did you know that you can even put your
facebook and snapfish acct in your will? I wonder….e-harmony….how about ipod music and all
the movies you bought on itunes!
That’s like a bazillion dollars in my house!!
** Seriously, without a will, some judge
somewhere that you don't know is going to decide things like who the Executor
of your estate will be (someone you may not know), who the guardian for your
children will be, things that should be decided by you the parents. Not just for families without children. Families without children should have wills as well. If you love your family and your spouse you will make a plan and not leave them here to grieve and to worry about their future as well.
Cinderella 's life would have been different if her father had left a "WILL"!
So this is more of a thinking challenge….
Today’s challenge is for you to consider what would
happen should you and/or your spouse pass away. This is something we don’t like
talking about (or preparing for), however it’s VERY important. There’s no way
to put this lightly – but do you have your affairs in order should something
happen to you? We are always trying to prepare for natural disaster situations,
and sometimes people don’t survive these scenarios. What would happen if you
didn’t make it but the rest of your family did?
Today’s Goal: Get your legal/financial affairs in order in case you die
Today’s Limitations:
- For this day, and ALL days of the challenge: no spending money, no going to stores, and no restaurants.
- Since this is a planning day, there are no other limitations
Tasks-
. Print out two copies of this
questionnaire and have each spouse fill it out. Typically one spouse does more
of the bills/finances so this is an exercise to see what situation their spouse
would be in should something happen to them.
· Prepare a
draft for a will if you don’t have one already
· Make a
list of all your assets for those you leave behind
· If you
have children, develop a plan for who will take care of them if you and your
spouse passed away
· Make
lists of all the other things you would need/want surviving family to know
Spouse Family Financial Affairs Questionnaire
1. Do you have a will?
2. Do you know where a copy of your
will is located?
3. Do you have life insurance?
4. Do you know how much life
insurance you have on you and your spouse?
5. Do you know where your life
insurance policies are located?
6. Do you know what company provides
your home owner’s insurance?
7. Do you know where your home
owner’s insurance policy is located?
8. Do you know what company provides
your automobile insurance?
9. Do you know where your automobile
insurance policies are located?
10. Do you have any other insurance
policies?
11. How many bank accounts does your
family have?
12. What institutions do you have bank
accounts at?
13. Do you know how to log in to all
of your bank accounts online?
14. Do you know your bank account
numbers and/or how to find them in your home?
15. Do you know how much money is in
your general checking/savings accounts?
16. Do you know which bills are auto-‐paid
out of your checking account?
17. Do you know which bills need to
paid with checks each month?
18. Do you know the balances on all of
your credit cards and loans?
19. Do you know all of your open
credit accounts and where they are located?
20. Do you know what your credit
scores are?
21. Do you have any retirement
accounts?
22. Do you know how much money is in
your retirement accounts?
23. Do you know how to access your
retirement accounts online?
24. Do you know how much you are
currently contributing to your retirement monthly?
25. Do you have other investment
accounts, stocks, etc.?
26. Do you know how to access your
other investment accounts?
27. Do you know your family’s net
worth?
Once you have answered these
questions, give this paper to your spouse and have them put together a document
for you that includes all of the information that you didn’t know. How did this
make you feel? Would you be in a hard situation if your spouse died? Things
will be hard enough in that situation without stressing about finances/bills as
well.
I have come to recognize that through this experience I am NOT prepared as much as I thought. Thank you Kim for opening my eyes.
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